Yes she is. He is also being a typical Betrayed spouse.
He doesn't WANT to believe the reality of what is going on. Deep down he WANTS her to lie to him and tell him she doesn't want the OM. He WANTS her to keep telling him that the OM is just a friend.
That is typical of people on this site. What reality shows and what they want to believe are not the same. Many just refuse to see what the reality is showing. They will keep on believing lies no matter what the evidence or reality.
