Meanwhile I am here desperately grieving my lost opportunity for a second child with my H
Or so you have been saying for almost as long as I have been on here.
In that time, others have divorced, moved on, and some have found new partners. Still others have made huge, life changing transformations, and their spouses have as well, and their marriages reconcilled.
You can take ownership of your own choices and live your own life if you want to do that, but you haven't been willing to really even try much for so long. Not choosing to do that is choosing to go through all of this pain and misery that you tell us all about daily.
Deal with the legal stuff. Spouses sue for legal fees in family court all of the time. Of course, settlements there tend to be income based, and an attorney would know what is usual where you are.
GAL, GAL, GAL, GAL.
Did I say GAL?
The foundation is: excercise, nutrition and rest.
Establish a daily (every single day) excercise and nutrition program. Get good sleep (excercise will help this, but no caffine late at night,etc).
Do it. Take the first steps toward non-misery.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
