If it is important to you to wind these last financial steps up to move on, then do that. If you want to do it no matter what the outcome, then do it.
So long as you aren't doing it to provoke a response. If it's TCB, then go ahead. Finances and no R talk other than the business end of it unless she brings it up.
But... it probably isn't going to be pretty. But if moving on is that important right now, then do it.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-