not sure what to think

[norstar]

Been working on getting over the EA and other trust issues. W seems to be losing all hope in our marriage. I ask her what may make her happy and she says I don't know. I also ask what she needs from me and again she says I don't know. I feel we are growing further apart. Sex is getting less and it wasn't that much to start with. communication about us is less and less. Even general chit chat is going down. She has said that we will eventually get divorced and she doesn't live well with others. I will admit I ask stupid question, like why are you waxing your lip to go out with gf? I have been laying off that as well as everything else. I guess you can say I am giving her the space she wants. We even sleep in seperate rooms. She says she doesn't feel comfortable sleeping with me or even to do things around the house or even go out, because I will ask a question or may even get upset. The only time I can remember blowing up was when she went somewhere and didn't leave a note and her cell would go strait to voicemail and I didn't blow up until she said I was overreacting. I think she is blowing everthing up because she wants a divorce but wants me to file. I have no idea anymore what is going on we have been going to MC for awhile and I am not sure that is working. W says she maybe BP type 2 or have some kind of depresion. I ask when she will go to see IC and she blows up and says she will go when she is ready and to stop asking. NOt sure what to do other then not say anything to her and not try to do anything with her. Sorry I am truly confused as she keeps telling me contrary things. Help....