I have noticed that my kids are kinda crabby and cranky when they get home after they have been with their Dad and OW. In a way, I am glad as I would be very sad if they totally accepted the situation...but, I know it is not right....
Just be the best parent you can be!!! You can't make-up for your H...that is up to him!
I am going to check out that Sara Evans song you posted....
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing