I would definitely reply when it comes to the kids. You can say something like, "Thank you for your concern, but we are fine and having fun." Again, anger isn't always a bad reaction from W. I wouldn't do the things that cause the anger, but you weren't doing anything wrong. I would say that as long as she is involved with OM it will difficult for her to detach and reattach to you until it passes. Keep working on yourself - she is noticing any changes - even if she doesn't admit it to you. Take the advice that works best for you. Everyone here has good intentions and will try to help the best they can.
