Thanks Mystik, I always appreciate the encouragement, it's needed.
Well today, what a great day with the boys!
But of course my wife chimes in....I get a text this morning saying it's time to take this to the next level and file, I ignore it, I was with the boys.
I get another a few hours later, asking if they had fun, I ignored that also.
This is from a lady that hasn't texted or talked to me in weeks.
So I get another saying she won't allow me to have the boys if I don't answer, did I leave town, get into a accident?
I just texted back we had fun.
That started a barrage of texts saying she has no more feelings for me, happy to be alone and every other thing she could think of to try and get a rise out of me.
So maybe I'll get papers, maybe I won't....not even sure if it matters, she certainly hates me right now.
Still dark.
I would document that threat, it is a threat, and let her know that you've documented everything she's done so that when you go to court they can see what kind of parent she is. She doesn't determine if you get to have custody of your children, the court will decide in the best interests of the children and fathers are getting joint custody if they show they want it, you should like a pretty good dad, I don't think you'll have any problems getting joint custody.
Tell her straight, that she is only to contact you about specific matters concerning the kids (things they may need, doctor's appt's, school, purchases, etc.), she doesn't have to worry about if the kids are having fun with you, that is your job to take care of when you have them, not her's. She can call to speak with them and you can set up a specific time for her to do that.
And than.... start going out and getting a life.
Stop pursuing her and bringing up relationship talk.
