Finding My Way

[Mystik]

NM, I am about 85 pounds overweight at the moment. Enough that when I went to a movie today the seat was a bit snug. I have tried working out consistently and eating right, I've tried Weight Watchers, I've tried starving myself. Starving myself was the only way I was able to get any weight off, it's how I got those 15 pounds off. But obviously that's not a realistic way to lose weight. (Hope that's a typo in there and that you're not judging me. I hate how they don't give you a long window to make edits to your post. ) So for me surgery seems to be the best option.

Lostinlife, very true. We have the kids so, what can we do? I sometimes have desire to date but know myself enough to know that it would only be trying to find someone else to latch onto, which isn't healthy. And other/most days I think that I will never get involved with another man in my life. My self-esteem took a beating long before H came into my life so I can't blame him for that problem.