Thank you so much for responding and the kind words.
Our two year anniversary was monday, the day she called just to say hey. We've been together for almost 5 years total.
I know there were things as a husband i could have done better, I just never thought it was bad enough for us to be here.
As far as how were things before, they seemed fine. We took a cruise in June and had a great time. We were suppose to go out of town the week that she left. We had been planning up to the friday before she left when things started to change. Up until then she was brining stuff home for places for us to go when we were out of town etc.
When it happened it completely came out of left field for me. Since then she has told me things like i made her feel like we wanted different things. She had been on a kick about moving for the last few years and I just couldnt jump for whatever reason. Whether it was b/c of family being here, us having a house, etc, but not i look at all that and realize how unimportant some of that stuff was.
