A new Start to a bad ending.

[Lost Rabbit]

They HAVE to get used to not having you around, what ever happens in the end, you arnt going to be playing happy friendly familes again..

Going NC is the best thing I ever did, at first it didnt seem to work as far as H was concerned but it sure helped me get my head round things and grow into the woman I had lost over the thirty years.. I have now got her back and believe me she isnt going any where.

Thankfully for me it also eventually worked on H but that is not a given in every case so it really must be done for oneselfs first and foremost..

Dont beat yourself up its not easy to suddenly get your head round some of these concepts as they are so opposite to what your heart wants to do but hang on in there and prove that they do work (())