Sitch
married 9 yrs
Together 10
No kids
M-48
W-38
Bomb labor day weekend
Next week she moved out
OM involved

Had to change my ID as I had told a woman neighbor about the site.
after talking to out mutual friend (my friend) who is still her friend on facebook I realize what Guc, robx and times heals are talking about.
She told me that W has not had time to process the ending of our M. That I am well ahead in the mourning process and she has not even started because I have been so available to her. She still thinks I will wait and be her "friend".

I get it now! I uess it takes talking to someone. She said I will be fine with time but if W keeps thinking I am ok with this that she will be stuck and so will I. Thanks guys sorry I have a hard head.