violin, did you break it to the salsa dancer yet? Instead of saying that you don't feel attracted, say that you don't feel the connection. It is softer and she will get the point. No need to be too blunt, right?

At least by you and your ex being on the site, she can see that you are dating! awesome.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004