On the HALT front all of those you can deal with yourself.. If you feel hes shoving you in that direction, make a plan ahead of time of what you are going to do about it.. Personally if you ever feel like that back off go a bit dim and leave him to his own devices whilst you refuel your batteries..
Ive been out GAL this week and got some thing planned next week.. H started to back track on his GAL in favour of spending time with me, but that would have only been good this weekend and ended up with him being ratty and bored during the week, so I kindly told him to get lost and go enjoy himself lol!
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