Agree on the Chase the Cat theory..

I am doing the following:

Not being overly enthusiastic
no future talk
not persuing, reasoning or begging
not initiating the conversation
staying cool

SINGING to the radio in the car.. with her

Enjoying my Son.

It is a Chess game.. I was going to ask how will I know of she watching.. then I thought that is stupid 20 years.. she watches and knows.. or thinks she does..


M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10