WAW 20 years and wants out

[pookie69]

180 can be confusing at times. Some people take it too literally. You have to keep an eye on what works and be very consistent. She is watching your every move.

It's kind of a chess game.

What are your plans for 180?

That can be a lot of fun and surprises. Key to attraction.

Don't chase the cat.

[pookie69]

Greek festival! Must have been arranged by Coach.

Seriously, that's when you pull out your charm cards. Do something funny, compliment her in front of strangers, be the center of attention.

Don't worry if you don't get the reaction from her you would expect. It all registers.

When you get home do something that isn't your normal behavior.

[Pensacolabroken]

Agree on the Chase the Cat theory..

I am doing the following:

Not being overly enthusiastic
no future talk
not persuing, reasoning or begging
not initiating the conversation
staying cool

SINGING to the radio in the car.. with her

Enjoying my Son.

It is a Chess game.. I was going to ask how will I know of she watching.. then I thought that is stupid 20 years.. she watches and knows.. or thinks she does..

[Pensacolabroken]

something that isnt normal behavior.. got it.. I will try to figure that one out..

thanks

[pookie69]

Oh they're watching all the time. Even when the don't seem to be interested.

Cats are very curious.

Mine (not my real cat - she's a dog) watched me this morning. We had a little CB session and I said what I had to and then played with my phone and laptop.

I eventually left the house but after returning from a shower my phone was displaced and the laptop was shutting down as I walked by it with lid closed.

They're always watching.

[pookie69]

something that isnt normal behavior.. got it.. I will try to figure that one out..

thanks

Go read my thread. I was a complete cheese when I pulled out the Queen of Diamonds card from my back pocket.

But it created a positive reaction.

Whatever it takes. You know your W the best.

I know you can figure something out.

[Pensacolabroken]

"normal" family day at Greek fest. ate some food. Went for Ice Cream with WAW and S afterwards.. got home and cleaned up some of the porch area where the renovation is almost complete on new bathroom. She helped. Thought I saw her FB her "friend" (his pic is unique) didnt react because I am not sure.. but after she came in and started downloading music from her shuffle library.. sappy stuff like Chris Isaac James Blunt, Diamond Rio.. she said it was all random... yea sure..

anyways I set up the telescope on the dock for our son to see the moon and we are gonna look at stars in a few minutes.. she was happy today and now she is quite and withdrawn.. sounding sadder.. maybe my 180's are getting to her. also I noticed she tried to push back on me a little, I just let her alone.

My unusual for tonight was to set up the telescope she has complaining about for 2 years.. I am a hero to my son anyways!

policy of Det`ente continues.. she hasnt brought up MC on Monday and neither have I.

I did tell her it was nice to spend a day with family and I had fun she nodded...

[Pensacolabroken]

Wife left to go for a drive.. She brushed her teeth and got ready to go for a "drive". I am on the dock with my son looking at stars.. loosing my mind.

anyways,, I come back in look at her play list she made..

Something Beatles
Wicked Game Chris Isaak
Body is a wonderland Mayer
Since you been gone Clarkson
Youre Beautiful James Blunt
Beautiful Mess Diamond Rio
One more Day
Hunter Dido

well you get the picture...

she has checked out me and my son..

I noticed she was gradually getting more saddened as the day went on and we were acting as if...

I have not persued..

thoughts from the hive?

she is still out

[Pensacolabroken]

pookie where is your story at?

[Pensacolabroken]

got it

queen of diamonds