I replayed the conversation last night in my head.. I am hearing this from wife.... . - I am pissed that you told all my friends and people about the OM -
She is angry that I am "dragging her name through the mud"
Yet I have caught her repeatedly in a lies about him (text records, video of a play date with his kids and our son etc) Has to be more than a "friend".
Maybe I was on the target by exposing the EA OM.. and she is simply pissed because I nailed it and confronted the OM...
You are guessing a lot here about how she feels. Has she told you the reasons in those exact words?
The truth is that she is not attracted to you right now. You are a nuisance to her and on the way of her business. She told you that you are "separated". She made that decision to justify the crap behavior. You are not a couple therefore she is free to do whatever she wants.
Believe me. I've been there and in some degree still am.