Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

TH,

Honestly I am on the fence. I was totally check out a few months ago and started moving forward with my life.

I Started to date b/c I felt I was ready too have a R with someone.

This OW from school is really not an issue. I Thaink she's nice and attractive but Somethings telling me not to persue her. And since she wouldn't date me to I'm officially D I told her it could be 6-9 months b4 that may happen.
She still want to remain friends. I haven't spoken to her other than the school funtion last night.

I was out of limbo b/c I decided to move on. Now I feel that I'm back in there b/c W made a feable attempt to say she wanted to work on M.

I now she's knows I'm OK with D and b/c she told me so. I am happy now and she noticed the changes. She even said to me that if she didn't leave me then I wouldn't be where I'm at today.
Maybe/ maybe not. That's not a fair statement.

I do miss the family life but I can't do it just for the kids. She couldn't stay for the kids so it has to be for the right reasons.

She said she wanted us to talk. From the history of my sitch, she has dragged her feet on every decision thus far. I was the one pushing for mediation, the finances with the house and other things.

Mediation went well for me. The only items on the board are the investments, which I need to let the mediator know about and her take of the equity in the house, which is something she as to look into.
So with that being said should I email W about the agreement?
Asking her what value she expects to receive?

Seems like when she's faced with decision like that it motives her to think about life w/o me.

IDK. It's a tough call.

Trying to be patient, just wanting to move forward either way.