I know I can sue for legal fees in divorce court, but not sure about family court. Have to call the lawyer on Monday and find out about that.
As for it being minor, that's not so true. For me it's the difference between having enough money to pay my electric/gas bill and get gas and groceries, or having enough to pay my electric/gas bill or get gas and groceries. Thankfully this time I am able to scrape enough together that I can do both, but what about next month? Or the month after that?
But I am dealing with it and trying to keep on rolling.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303