Wow GW, you still out there? I just read your stich... well most of it, that sucker was long!
I realize what a big mistake I made when this whole thing first went down with my H. I made it easy for him to S because everything became so emotional so quickly. It wasn't thought through well at all. I also realize I am in big trouble to every get this back on track not only because we are physically separated but bc we don't have kids etc. holding us together. I do still have the work environment to influence his view of me but I think he is in a deep, deep fog. Like I said a few days ago, I suspect they may have taken a trip to Vegas together this weekend. I haven't heard from him for 4 days since 'sort of exposing' the affair. At least making him wonder significantly what it is I know. This is very unusual not to hear from him this long. I obviously have to let him go big time. If he figures out what a massive mistake he is making, so be it. If he does not, I will move on.
Last edited by blgp; 10/16/1002:30 PM.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
