Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[LanceSijan]

I'm at the point now where I feel and think that my wife doesn't have what it takes to reconcile

Sorry this sounds like mind reading to me.
Are you into fortune telling?
If you are that good at predicitng the future can you pick me some lottery numbers or stock picks.

Am I being too impatient?

Sounds like it to me.
Patiece is the name of the game.
Nothing here happens quickly.