Oh F!ck i just posted more but the time ran out on my editing post.

Okay let me see if I can remember what I wrote. I really did not speak to wife except for Son 3 potty training.
Wife and I didn't really stand together during the function. I saw other woman and approached her to say hi. We spoke for five minutes tops. I'm not sure if wife saw us talking but I wasn't too concerned.

Okay, later that night I received an e-mail from other woman stating "can I ask you a personal question?"
I replied back this morning "sure, fire away"

yesterday I e-mailed the mediator with the financial information needed for the post-marital agreement. I'm at the point now where I feel and think that my wife doesn't have what it takes to reconcile.
I am going to email my wife today with the financial information and asked her if she has an amount for me to buy out of the house.

I now know what I need in a relationship. Since communication was a major problem in our marriage and wife still cannot communicate with me I am leaning towards D.

I know relationship talk is not something I should not bring up however I don't believe W has it in her to do the work.

Am I being too impatient?
I know I can't bring up relationship talk but is there an exception to the rule?

Any thoughts?


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