Thanks for sharing your wisdom. That`s exactly what I`m doing. standing still, watching, not jumping any which way for now.
Looking for now that H really just wants the kids-not me. Went away last weekend, just saying he was going away, not saying where. I`m still left with the bulk of the housework even though I work full time too. He comes and goes when he pleases so not dependable in terms of looking after the kids.
Its not tense around here anymore. More like old marriage really pre bomb. Him suiting himself and me not knowing wheter he cares about me or not.
Meanwhile, some more legal paper work has arrived for me to sort for going to court for separation.
