V1olin's new life without wife

[lea74]

I totally understand where you are coming from. I was with my XH since I was 14years old - so yeah I am myself not really interested in settling down right now. In some ways I feel like I am revisiting my teens!!!

They say that variety is the spice of life, and quite frankly before I take the plunge again want to make sure it is out of my system. (Does that make me sound trashy!!) I took my vows very seriously and never even looked at a dating website until the D was finalised - to be it would cheating.

I know it is not great telling someone that you are not attracted to them. I was dreading that conversation, but I think he realised it and has never contacted me again. (Phewh!!)