No one wanted me before H, and now that I'm fatter and have a kid I'm confident that no one will want me now. And I don't want anyone but H.
Mystik, speaking as a guy about your age with no kids, I can tell you that your kid is in NO WAY a deal breaker for me and honestly I don't think it would be for anyone you'd want to be with.
This is hard, but it will get easier.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011