Stop apologizing? Really? The infidelity stuff I've read says I should be prepared to keep apologizing IF she brings up that specific issue for YEARS??? Is that off?

I totally agree with you that I am not responsible and should not take responsibility for her ALL her bad feelings (I'm sorry you feel that way. That must be hard to feel that way.) And that I should not tolerate CB. When she says that I am responsible for the current sitch (separation), I say I'm sorry you feel that way. That's appropriate, right? Validating but not taking responsibility.

Why is she pissed off about the new Busto and calling me Mr. Perfect??? What's that all about?

What do you see as her bigger issues?

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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