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Coach: You said:
Quote:

Four Phases
- get rid of negative feelings

- become friends again

- rekindle the romance

- re-commit to the marriage


Is this conventional wisdom? I've been doing this is EXACTLY the wrong order.

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M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011