Unless this guy looks like the bottom of my foot, don't discount his attention. Where there is smoke, there is FIRE. If you are truly not interested, that's one thing, but if it's fear . . . you can never have too many friends, and maybe the guy is just lonely and needs someone to talk to. JMO
Just checking in...D12 and I were sick with stomach flu yesterday so we pretty much laid around and slept all day! Better today!
We ended up not going to the drive-thru zoo...everyone was cranky and wishy washy over going so we cleaned the garage instead! (thinking they wished they would have picked the zoo! but with being sick yesterday I think I see why the crankiness on Sunday!).
SA-thinking that the D'd guy saw me sitting as a third wheel with another couple all night and maybe thought I'd change my mind?
Mystik-I have always been a little nervous on a motorcycle and only trust my H driving one...for now!
punkin-I am really NOT interested in this guy...
Hopefully I can get caught up with everyone later!
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I just wanted to share a reconciliation story with you!
I have kept in occassional touch with someone that used to post here and hasn't posted in a long time!
She shared with me that her H is back home! He D'd her and has been gone a year. I asked her to please come back and post an update as I think all of need to read her story!
I can tell you that she dropped the rope and detached a LONG time ago and worked on herself and strengthened her faith in God!
I hope that she will come back and tell us about her journey!
I also want to tell you about something that happened to me that has renewed my faith and hope!
When I picked up the mail the other day, I noticed a letter with no return address. Inside was a note that read "praying for you and your family everyday, we hope this helps" and enclosed were 2 gift cards to local gas stations!
This was my horoscope for that day:
Uncanny coincidences happen around us every day. Most of these, though, take place without us noticing. They happen to other people... or they happen to us yet somehow we take them in our stride and treat them as normal. If we only knew how many guardian angels were toiling tirelessly day and night to move heaven and earth to help us, we'd never again complain about awkward issues or frustrating situations! Don't doubt the existence of magic in your life now. You've got more support than you know.
Goosebumps???
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Thanks for sharing CW. The story of your friend helps restore my faith in standing, and your anonymous gift giver helps restore my faith in humankind! (See my thread about the burglars) Thanks!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
Thank you SOOOO much for your post! It's wonderful to hear such encouraging news. Please tell your friend how much we would like to hear her story............especially those of us who are D'ed. I am very curious about what it looked like when her XH began to reconnect with her and how she was able to rekindle her feelings for him after she had moved on.
wow CW...share that friend's story! was there an OW?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
No surprise as to someone sending you the gas cards. You have obviously touched people's lives and they are giving back. What a wonderful testament to the kind of person you are.
Thank you for sharing the R story. I do hope they will come back and share an update with us.
When I picked up the mail the other day, I noticed a letter with no return address. Inside was a note that read "praying for you and your family everyday, we hope this helps" and enclosed were 2 gift cards to local gas stations!
CW, I forgot to add how wonderful I think it is that your guardian angel sent you this gift! God is working behind the scenes to take care of you! He is working on H too........
but with being sick yesterday I think I see why the crankiness on Sunday!).