My L told me to keep track of everything that I pay that H does not help me with so I am...
This would be a good question to ask your L...if you don't have to have the money right away but keep track of everything you are paying out with receipts etc. If your H files, it is possible that he will have to pay all legal fees (as mine could be ordered to since I counter-filed)and will have to pay you what he owes...
I am so sorry he is putting you thru this! I guess I am lucky that I havent had to discuss any of the D stuff with my H.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing