Bustorama-Thread 1

[bustorama]

So, after D5 soccer practice, D5 and D2 started melting down. W started to lose it.

Said angrily that she should just give me custody of the kids and move to Seattle, that's what I wanted anyway. I said, I get that you're frustrated and angry, but where did you get the idea that's how I feel.

Then she immediately launched into spew about the EA (first time in months), that I was like any other guy and couldn't keep my d*ck in my pants. That now I had changed and was Mr. Perfect and running and now I wanted her to come running back to me. I apologized for hurting her, said I was so wrong to do what I did and I was sorry for my part in our relationship going south. Had taken steps and continued to take steps so I would not do something like that again to anyone.

She said something like I'll never get over it, I'll be alone and miserable the rest of my life. My friends don't talk to me anymore. You can have them. I don't trust anyone -- my friends, my family, only our D's. I sit at home and binge eat. I told her I was so sorry she felt that way, I got it, and sorry for my my previous bad behavior. I said if she felt she could never get over it then we should move ahead and divorce. She said something like oh yeah so I can be screwed up for the rest of my life. I don't really remember what happened after that except that she said something sort of declining that she wanted to move ahead with divorce.

Little after she left she called me on phone and was non-angry, but not wifey. It's obvious to me she still is really hurt and angry from the EA. I'm fine continuing to give her time/space and GALing/doing my own thing, but not sure if it's the right thing to do. Do I give her the Gucci or a D bomb? It seems heartless to me in this case of a broken heart??? What else say when she brings the EA up like this?