Jack,
Great thread there from MWD...I read it and emailed it to my wife...
I have already consciously made the decision to forgive because forgivness is a gift you give yourself...but everyone benefits from forgivness in the end...wife, children, and yourself...
I am glad I found this site when this event first happened because I have gained alot of valuable education on here that has helped me to handle this in a nice calm manner...
I read alot here constantly...
Thanks for the posts...