Yes, you need to be who you are without boundaries. Love who you are, no matter what you hear from WAW. You will be okay again, it just takes "time".
I am glad you are "holding your own". I know it's hard, and I empathize. I truly feel you will find soon that your courage and strength will pay off. We have to focus on ourselves only and not let the WAS define us. This is very important.
I am doing well with my recovery. I drove myself to several stores today. I needed things for when I move and I purchased them, and I feel great! I am stiff and sore, and move like I am 100 years old, but I am doing great. I do feel it's all mind over matter, my friend!
I have found throughout this whole D process that I have a strong sense of survival mode after all. I didn't think so in July when the "bomb" dropped. I feel I have my "mojo" back and I am okay.
Run your dogs butts hard this weekend, they will love you for it! lol
H is "H". He still has resentment and anger issues.I don't play along. He helps me when necessary, but I rarely if ever ask him for help.
A male friend (nothing but platonic) took me to lunch today..H was seemed "surprised" and went to take a take a nap before this person picked me up.
Have a good weekend, YOU deserve it.
Hang in there- of course I am thinking of you and I AM in your corner! Always~
