I have not been serious enough yet to want to pay for a dating site. I use the free ones! The salsa girl was a setup by the guy that I work with. I don't have very many ways of meeting new people in everyday life.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Did a little browsing on match.com just now and there is a LOT of beautiful women on there including my EX WIFE! LOL that's right! I did not read her profile though. That might be a little too gross for me.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I know, I did not view her though! I made a profile last summer just so that I could browse but I have not been on there in about a year. My profile is hidden. I think I will rewrite my profile, add new pictures and then pay for the subscription. I guess I know where she met her new boyfriend!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I totally understand where you are coming from. I was with my XH since I was 14years old - so yeah I am myself not really interested in settling down right now. In some ways I feel like I am revisiting my teens!!!
They say that variety is the spice of life, and quite frankly before I take the plunge again want to make sure it is out of my system. (Does that make me sound trashy!!) I took my vows very seriously and never even looked at a dating website until the D was finalised - to be it would cheating.
I know it is not great telling someone that you are not attracted to them. I was dreading that conversation, but I think he realised it and has never contacted me again. (Phewh!!)
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
violin, did you break it to the salsa dancer yet? Instead of saying that you don't feel attracted, say that you don't feel the connection. It is softer and she will get the point. No need to be too blunt, right?
At least by you and your ex being on the site, she can see that you are dating! awesome.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
