Ugh, woke up to find melted crayon all over the kids clothes in the dryer! One good side is that there were a lot of summer clothes in there and they will be retired anyway. Forgot D3's backpack for preschool and had to go back home to get it. Decided to stop for some breakfast and then go to the bank.
I am going over to Salsa dancer's place tonight and I am bringing the wine. Should be fun! She is a complex person and it is fun trying to get to know her. One thing I am noticing is that the DB techniques that I have learned here(that never worked on XW)work great on single women!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I am finding myself not real attracted to the salsa dancer. I guess it might be time for the letting down easy talk. Why do so many women get attatched so fast?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Just yesterday you mentioned it was fun getting to know the complex salsa dancer. But I somehow can understand how one can have a change of heart in a short time when first dating someone new.
Dating is really hard at first. Be gentle with yourself. I met someone online who I met a couple of times and he was really lovely. I could tell he was keen, but I just didnt feel anything for him at all. Which is such a shame as he would have been a great distraction :-)
As for women getting attached fast - we just do. Take it as a compliment.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
Yes, she is complex but this is only the second time we have seen each other. There is some baggage there that I don't care to get into and my problem with the attraction is physical. She has a great personality but I don't want it to go anywhere physical. Going to nip it in the bud sooner than later.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
lea74, thank you for the insight on female attachment. It just makes dating that much more difficult. I have never been in this situation before in my life. I dated a few girls very short term until about 18. Then I dated a very nice girl for 3 years. We parted ways and my xw came back into my life as a friend at first but I still had feelings for her. We started dating and stayed together until the big D.
Now, I feel like I don't want to be attachted to any one woman because I want to sample the buffet! I just don't like feeling like a jerk when I have to tell them that the attraction is not there.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I like match.com because there seems to be a large membership and it is very inexpensive ($100 for 6 months).
All of the meetups have been nice. I met and had a girlfriend for about 9 months through match. I still chat with another lady I met and went on about 4 dates with over a year ago. And there was another lady this last summer that I had fun going out and doing things with but she had some health problems. The new one I met last night is very nice and I hope the feelings are mutual. But I have a hard time reading women.
