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Originally Posted By: v1olin
You can also call a bunch of apartment companies and leave your name and number. They will be calling you back at your home number leaving messages like, "This is xyz-neighborhood calling about your recent interest in our properties"

That should make you look serious.


I thought of that, but we don't have a home line, just cells. Such is the 21st century.

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Enjoy your kids you still get to see them every day.


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Ah, figures! You could go get some brochures and include your w in helping pick out your new pad!


Me 35
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Hi Pinhead,
I've been reading along and it seems you are getting the very best of advice but the greatest part is that you are following the advice and responding so clearly. Sending you every best wish. Cas

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you are a riddle pinhead. retroville in one post. moving out in the next. telling her you're not attracted to her in one sentence. you are bringing her lunch the next.

Stick to one plan.

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"I'll do anything for my babies." WOW.




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BEGIN hijack

Coach: You said:
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Four Phases
- get rid of negative feelings

- become friends again

- rekindle the romance

- re-commit to the marriage


Is this conventional wisdom? I've been doing this is EXACTLY the wrong order.

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You could, get a PO Box and do a change of address with the post office. They will send you a confirmation letter to your old address.


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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
you are a riddle pinhead. retroville in one post. moving out in the next. telling her you're not attracted to her in one sentence. you are bringing her lunch the next.

Stick to one plan.



Steve,

I mean this with all sincerity. You've followed my sitch all along. What would you have done with hindsight being 20/20 and based on your experience? And I don't mean dress up as Minnie Pearl. Concrete advice as best as you can.

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen




"I'll do anything for my babies." WOW.




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Can you elaborate?

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