I don't have a sledgehammer handy and isn't that just as well... I just feel that by detaching I'm betraying my 'better or worse' vows. But it became clear lately that it was detachment or depression, and I can't afford the latter. Saving my skin, but I feel guilty.
Thanks for the translation, Pinhead. Crap behaviour it certainly is. The worst of it is that I'm nearly certain he will NEVER recognise it for that or apologise to a
Me: 46 H:42 Together for 18 yrs, married 14. 3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7. Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation. Separated 08/2010