Good advice. Timing is what matters. THere are no arguments right now she just comes home and does her thing.. I have seen small incremental movements back to center..
If I start to talk about it she just walks away. She refuses to discuss it.. at least finally I have her headed to MC.. that is a HUGE leap from the last 10 days.. somee of the poeple on here are using DB and they STILL have not gotten the spouse to MC.. My wife said SHE would go with me if I was serious.. that was after telling her I was going to go myself and she vollunteered to go also.. (she probably didnt think I would schedule so soon and the time of the day gave her a reason to revolt) but point is she has agreed to go.. that has to be recognized in DR as monitoring the results.. and my DB Coach recommended I NOT bring up OM because that makes her feel good.. so why try to make her feel about D*(@ Bag?
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
