Then have a folder with all your plans in it. Don't hide it.

-Finances

- Housing

- Insurance

- Custody Schedule

- Names of attorneys with notes

- info on how to talk to your girls

Make sense?

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.