Where are you now? Sounds like she is warming up and becoming attracted. Lead and let her pursue.
Come home from the race talking about the people you met. Talk about your book, try a new recipe for dinner, pick up a new shirt, go over your finances with her, let her see into you with no pursuit. Be attractive.
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Do I just tell her that I need to think about things if she asks?
Depends how she acts. Praise and reward good behavior. She's watching you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.