Well lets put it this way 11/2 is my birthday. Over the next coulpe weeks I will see if she is trying. Like I said. If she skips both days Co we have set up I will know that she is still with him because Co was going to address it. I don't expect to hear from her this weekend since its "girls weekend" not even sure of that one.
My next strategy is if she blows off both Co sessions and still trys to "friends" me I am going to tell her its time for her to move on since she has no respect for our marriage.