XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Thanks for that. It is good to know I am not alone. I havent spoken to my XH in months. Everything is done via email or texts. I did try a phone call the other day as I thought is was ridiculous that two people who had spend almost every day of 21 years together couldnt talk - however it just didnt work. He started accusing me of lying, (as usual) I got defensive and we ended up putting the phone down on each other.

I did ask him to go with me to the teacher conference and he declined and decided to go with OW instead.

He sees my sons 96 hours a month, so I really dont have anything to tell him and he calls our sons every nite so knows what is going on.

I make most of the decisions regarding our sons, e.g school activities, homework, etc. I have also made the decision re my son's secondary school. He really cant give any input anyway. There are only 2 choices and as he lives 40miles away doesnt help with school runs etc, so I have to do what I can manage - logistically that is.

Like I said it isnt ideal and not how I would like it - but for now it works.