Thanks for all the responses. I did read Divorce Remedy twice. I am an idiot, I am going to leave her alone because last night she spent the night the OM. Boy that pain hurts. Anyway not talking to her about R is I think the best advice I can get right now. If this continues and she does not come around, we will lose everything and I mean everything. I love my kids but because of all the fighting we have done in front of them, several of them are not happy with me right now. When the W and I are together we argue. Is it not better to live apart and not argue in front of the children. I mean I can't help myself sometimes. Plus how would I feel when I see her getting dolled up for a date with the OM. Anyway ant advice is wlecome at this point. Thanks bunch
"Wife, I understand I hurt you and you are angry at me for my bad behavior in the past. Right now I will not live in a open marriage. If you do not cut off all contact immediately then I will pack your bags, you will leave and I will file for a D."
If she goes out then you have all her stuff in the garage. No drama just time for her to start respecting you and your family.
