Eric,

I don't think you're a doormat either. My H said something interesting to me today. He said that he noticed me becoming more and more pleasant to be around. And as a result, he found ways to NOT be around me because it was too confusing since he was supposed to be doing better without me. They notice what we often think they don't. And you never know what simple things can cause a profound shift in their thinking patterns. I think you did the right thing and am proud of you too.


"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"

M18
Me39,H42
D16
Bomb 1/10
Moved out 3/10
OW 6/10
H wants to R,OW gone 11/10
H moves back 5/11
H wants to wear rings again 9/11