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Re: I'm now healing and moving forward ericmsant2 #2090025 10/15/10 06:53 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 843 North Vietnam L LanceSijan Member
LanceSijan Member L Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 843 North Vietnam	Bravo, FTR I think you are doing fine. Great actually. YOU are NOT a doormat and their is nothing wrong with anything that you are doing. They DO remember how you treat them while they are in the tunnel. Your example is top notch. Keep up the good work!

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward LanceSijan #2090029 10/15/10 06:58 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Quote: They DO remember how you treat them while they are in the tunnel. I believe this competely. You reap what you sow. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward Jack_Three_Beans #2090046 10/15/10 07:10 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 1,003 F FaithnAK Member
FaithnAK Member F Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 1,003	Eric, Great post and example of where we all should be in our sitches. That's where I need to get, I'm not at that place yet. I'm focused on getting there, but I'm not there yet. Thank you for this post Eric.

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward FaithnAK #2090059 10/15/10 07:36 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 4,042 D dl443322 Member
dl443322 Member D Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 4,042	I'm so proud of you, my friend. You can never go wrong when you act from a place of love rather than from a place of anger.

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward dl443322 #2090065 10/15/10 07:43 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 3,132 CT/USA E ericmsant2 OP Member
OP ericmsant2 Member E Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 3,132 CT/USA	B - For the first time in a long time.... I'm proud of ME. Now my next challenge is not to get a "big head" LOL. Sending (((hugs))) your way. "The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward ericmsant2 #2090069 10/15/10 07:48 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 412 A Albuquerque Member
Albuquerque Member A Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 412	Eric, I don't think you're a doormat either. My H said something interesting to me today. He said that he noticed me becoming more and more pleasant to be around. And as a result, he found ways to NOT be around me because it was too confusing since he was supposed to be doing better without me. They notice what we often think they don't. And you never know what simple things can cause a profound shift in their thinking patterns. I think you did the right thing and am proud of you too. "Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most" M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward Albuquerque #2090077 10/15/10 07:56 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 3,132 CT/USA E ericmsant2 OP Member
OP ericmsant2 Member E Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 3,132 CT/USA	Hey Alb, Trust me I know I am not a doormat. Everything I do - I choose to do. My W may never "see" me "in that way again" - who knows. What I do know is this... I like what I see in the mirror! It ain't perfect...never gonna be... But chit...it ain't bad - NOT anymore. Coolest things...is that really I decide - not her. My life, my choices. My respect! And I choose to RESPECT her... Not because of HER actions...because It is WHO I AM. Thanks for popping in. Eric "The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans

Re: I'm now healing and moving forward ericmsant2 #2090394 10/16/10 11:24 PM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok Member
sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	Hi eric, Your thread is very large. Please start a new one. Thanks, sg sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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