It's easy for a bunch of pissed off guys on a message board to tell you what is up.
Wow, where did THAT come from, IMP? I thought Rob and Gucci were both happily married? Regardless of whether or not you agree with them, at least they took the time to come by and try to help poor Rondo here; you shouldn't insult them IMHO.
That seems fair to me. The personal attacks are pretty much one-sided.
You see the pattern:
Person A offers their advice based on their experience and understanding of this sitution (person B, and so on).
The advice of person A goes something like this: it's OK to have healthy boundaries and enforce them, and if you don't, then why do you expect things to change?
Response from IMP? Without discussing anything about the advice whatsoever, personally attack person A.
Textbook stuff.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
It's easy for a bunch of pissed off guys on a message board to tell you what is up.
Wow, where did THAT come from, IMP? I thought Rob and Gucci were both happily married? Regardless of whether or not you agree with them, at least they took the time to come by and try to help poor Rondo here; you shouldn't insult them IMHO.
Someone please correct me if I'm wrong.
Starsky
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Mayhaps he is one of those "pissed off guys", IMP stay 'in your place'! ;-)
Why can't we all just get along? I came here from another forum cuz they didn't allow any dissent over there without attacking you and belittling you. I'm hoping this one isn't the same way. :o(
Hey guys It cool. I get the advice now that rob and gucci have given me. I am enforcing my boundries but at the same time W knows me as a certain person. I have been good to her over the years and she should think about that. My plan is to go to Co Tues since she can't. If she cancels Thurs I will let her know that I see no effort from her side to reconcile and we need to end it. That I value our marriage and if she does not she can have the life she choose to have.
On the other hand until than I will be pleasant if she calls and I take it. Just can't take it in the morning, its the worst time for me..
Why can't we all just get along? I came here from another forum cuz they didn't allow any dissent over there without attacking you and belittling you. I'm hoping this one isn't the same way. :o(
If somebody chooses to make things personal, they alone have chosen to not get along, and there's not a danged thing you can do about that except accept that you aren't going to get along with them.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
If somebody chooses to make things personal, they alone have chosen to not get along, and there's not a danged thing you can do about that except accept that you aren't going to get along with them.
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