I told her I didn't want to work on this M anymore, or the R, and I frankly didn't want to be friends anymore. We've caused too much damage to each other and I didn't want anything to really do with her anymore. I would remain civil for the sake of our child, but I would prefer if we could just move on with our lives.
Oh, his WORDS say that, but from this noob's perspective, his actions say something completly different!!
So when your spouse says they are not cheating even though all signs say they're lying you're supposed to believe them???
I'm guessing you we're refering to something else..
No. don't be stupid.
this. John what is she telling you:
Originally Posted By: john28
So when I came home from lunch, all the dishes in the house had been put in the dishwasher. I've been procrastinating about doing them and was planning on doing them this evening. They had already been done, and there's a note left in the sink: "Friends don't let friends live like that. Don't let it get that bad again. Love You"
Nothing spectacular this weekend really, I canceled our "family" trip to the pumpkin farm and didn't go. Well, she flipped sh!t and got upset of course, and I just held my ground... then she starts blowing up my phone and sending me texts. One says "I need to talk to you right now." This went on for 30 minutes, I called her back to tell her to stop calling me.
She says, "I need child support money right now." I said that wasn't what we talked about, we never agreed to anything, and she's had joint access to all of our accounts for the entirety of the month. If she wanted some, she could take out half of it, but I wanted her to pay me back for her car insurance, health insurance, all her bills.... otherwise I would close her account access and give her the full amount next month since she's been spending money out of our accounts all month. She said she still wanted the full amount - I told her fine, do whatever you want, go to the bank take out money I don't give a sh~t but PLEASE STOP CALLING ME.
I got a little heated and told her to stop contacting me, don't talk, text, email - nothing. I was tired of her DRAMA and BS and I was DONE with her. I told her to GROW UP and stop all this crap. She was silent the whole time on the phone and I hung up.
I don't ever yell or get upset. This is only the 2nd time I've done so in this whole sitch. I know it made an impact. I'm just hoping she leaves me alone.
Later on yesterday I had to know what time she was coming by to drop S4 off so I called her to ask. She had to work really early so I said that I would pick him up instead. She didn't like that for some reason and kept asking why I needed to pick him up. I told her that I wanted to play golf with him in the morning and she lives close to the golf course so that would work best for me. She then says, "If you are having people stay overnight at the house that's fine, just don't lie to me." Huh? Ok..... well I told her fine, just drop him off with me and give me a call on your way over so I can wake up.
She always calls when she comes over. Always. She gets pissed off when I don't call on my way.
Guess what, she didn't call on the way. I KNOW that she did this to try and "catch" me with someone else. This is ridiculous.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
