OK....after re-reading all of these posts....and all of the advice....I see where I went wrong. I was not ready to REALLY implement the wisdom shared with me....but I knew it was true.
Puppy Dog Tails and everyone else gave the advice I needed then and it still holds true now.
So what is the going "Robx/Gucci" on her?
DMB
M:18 T:22 S 15 S 10 D9
Bomb Dropped 5/22/2010 EA with old college BF discovered and Exposed - 5/25/2010 MC begins 5/25/2010 EA contact cut off 5/28/2010 Current - DBing - 180's and joint MC sessions
Let her go! Get on with your life, give her what she wants(her freedom).
My only question is: Why would you want to be friends with someone who wants to rip your world apart? I just don't get that. You have become the "gay" best friend, is that what you want in a relationship?
Let her go, agree with her, move on, find someone who will love you.
"I get it wife, I have been selfish trying to get you to stay in a marriage you are unhappy in. I have decided I don't want to be married to someone who is love with someone else. I am going to see a L about getting papers drawn up so we can dissolve the marriage."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Let her go, agree with her, move on, find someone who will love you.
"I get it wife, I have been selfish trying to get you to stay in a marriage you are unhappy in. I have decided I don't want to be married to someone who is love with someone else. I am going to see a L about getting papers drawn up so we can dissolve the marriage."
It WILL work! but only if you sincerely mean it.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Let her go, agree with her, move on, find someone who will love you.
"I get it wife, I have been selfish trying to get you to stay in a marriage you are unhappy in. I have decided I don't want to be married to someone who is love with someone else. I am going to see a L about getting papers drawn up so we can dissolve the marriage."
It WILL work! but only if you sincerely mean it.
You have to be convincing. She can't read your mind.
