WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

got it.. so I tell her firmly and fairly, I dont except her and her "friend" doing anything together.. nothing.. and she must break it off.

so I ask her if she is still in touch with or contact with him?

If I push this she will not go to counseling with me.. I have the gut feeling I need to see the MC first and do my 180's and LRT for the weekend.. thoughts?

she is NOT activly out with this guy... she MAY be in contact via text or what ever, and he IS on her FB page, but she is still home when she is supposed to be and HAS agreed to go to MC..