My 40 year old wife's MLC

[Albuquerque]

Troy,

I'm far from through with my H ordeal, but my H has recently been opening up to me about his MLC thoughts. You can find his emails that I've posted on my thread. They have been very illuminating. He SAW my changes by my actions. He SAW me going out and GAL. He SAW my interaction with D and others change. I often thought he was oblivious to the whole thing. He wasn't. He told me just today that he started finding it very enjoyable to be around me which made him find reasons to NOT be around me because it made it that much more confusing. (MLC=confusion) Don't talk. DO. And most importantly, do it for YOU, or else your still being reactionary. DO because it YOU want to be better.