By that comment I mean by trying to discuss the affair with her, over the course of the 10 years to spark her intimacy and sexual drive.. it pushed her farther away because I suspect she now finds it repulsive and iss feeling the guilt of it. She also cant reconcile that with the fact she hid an EA from me...
But I did push her to discuss it with me and she refused for many years..
Did she actually say any of this or are you mindreading?
