Jennifer, keep doing what you are doing. Be that strong MOM that the kids need BUT also...remember to take some time for YOU.
Do something for you Jennifer...nails, pedi, workout, go out with friends...something. If you do not you will begin to resent YOUR H, which is not good for YOU or HIM.
I know this and I agree, which is one of the reasons why I am continuing to make plans with my friends and have my calendar booked up the next 2 weekends. (And H is staying with the kids both times) And I am due for a pedicure soon
